Gift Giving Guy

My Saturday morning begins with a short walk to the local farmer’s market. My wife is not with me as I peruse the tables of fruits, vegetables and flowers. I find a colorful bouquet (pictured right) and return home to give her the flowers. There’s no special occasion; it’s just because.

I believe that flowers are best given unexpectedly and just because. I also give flowers to wish a happy birthday, to congratulate, to express sympathy, to say “thank you” and to say “I love you.” I don’t advocate flowers as an apology. Guys: Want to get out of the doghouse? Don’t give flowers, give a sincere apology.

Some additional flower giving tips:

• Find one or two great local florists, perhaps one near her/his/your home and one near her/his work. I usually avoid Internet sites for local deliveries because I want reliable same-day delivery and outstanding quality in flowers and arrangement. If the floral gift will be delivered out of town, I like to use ProFlowers.com.
• Traditional roses are wonderful to express romance. If you are looking to mix it up, ask the florist about a seasonal arrangement.
• Before ordering on the phone or online, have the following ready: the recipient’s name (with proper name spelling), recipient’s address, recipient’s phone number, preferred delivery date and time (morning or afternoon), the message for the card, a phone number to reach you, and your credit card number. If sending to a workplace, offer specifics such a room number, floor or department.
• If giving the flowers in person, think about how you would like to actually give the flowers. I like to hide them in some way (e.g., behind my back, inside my coat, covered in a laundry basket) then spring them out as a surprise.